Self Love: Trashy or Classy

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   I could be wrong but I don’t think I am (I rarely ever do), but I think that part of self- love is how you present yourself to the world. How you look and act is a reflection of how you feel on the inside. To make ourselves feel good we try our best to appear attractive to others.

   I’ve been hearing women talk about other women degrading themselves for the way they dress.  And quite honestly I think it’s a double-edged sword.

   I know the messages about girl power and feminism are at a high right now but does the way we dress make us any less a member of the girl’s club? Are we succumbing to men when we flash a little skin? If we show more cleavage then the next chick do we get our membership revoked? If our skirts are too high do we get our right to vote taken back?

   Women should get to feel sexy when ever they want. I mean as long as it’s done in good taste and we’re not flashing our lady bits ala Lindsey Lohan we should still be respected, right?

   There are a lot of ways to be sexy and still keep it classy. The way we as women carry ourselves says a lot about us and who we are. We have to respect our bodies or no man ever will.

   We can still fight the good fight and not lose our sex appeal. We just have to remember to keep it classy.